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Abhinav Dhar

Abhinav Dhar
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Friday, April 22, 2011

Definition of Love...!!!

Love... a four letter word that has always remained in the hearts and minds of all the living beings on this Earth. Every single person on this earth needs love.. and if someone claims that he or she can live without love then definitely it is a joke because noone has ever lived without love , noone can ever exist without this magical word.
It is so because love started showing its form since you were inside your mother's womb, that time love was between you and your mother. Once you come out into this beautiful world you start getting love in various forms- mother,father,sister,brother,uncle,aunt etc. and even if a person says noone loves me then also there is atleast one person who loves you and that is GOD Himself.
As god cannot be everywhere so he created his images in the form of these relationships from where you get love in some way or the other.
When you are a child you can see that many people are around you taking care of you, but gradually when you grow up people start leaving you as they think you have become responsible enough and you dont need the same care as is required in the childhood.

So you start evolving, start taking up life as it comes and live it the way you want.
At the age of 17-20, as the trend today is, you feel that you must have a partner. (NOTE- I am not talking about the timepass partner , partner here means one who is with you always and loves u like anything)
so this is another form of love that has an important position in life.
This person must be chosen carefully because this is one relation that will continue to be with you during your whole life even when you are sad, gloomy , worried, tensed up...

So here starts another phase of love.. People may say that love has merely reduced to physical relationship but I strongly believe that love will have physical relation too but not only that..
It must connect two people emotionally too and if you are connected emotionally then there is an emotion in everything you do, even what you do physically is an emotion then.

I got a chance today to update my blog and write about love because I got motivated by my dearest friend Mr. Abhishek Maurya (his blog http://mauryaabhishek.blogspot.com/2011/04/definition-of-love.html#comments)

He wrote something about love today that I probably could not digest, you read his blog also, he wrote his point of view and I am here writing my views about what love is.

So i was talking about the physical part of a relationship which according to my dearest friend is the only thing thought by lovers today.
My dear friend I dont think so, what I think is that this physical part comes out of you when you are connected emotionally to a person whom you love.
Everything is full of emotions a sweet kiss, a tight hug, and everything else that exists between lovers. It is not that you are crossing all the limits, it is just that you have to do that because you love that person and it is your helplesness that you cant tell this to your parents because they wont understand all this at this time.
But once you grow up and succeed in life then they will allow you to socially live together and do whatever you want...
and this is how true love wins..!!
TRUE LOVE should not be written I must write only LOVE because love is always true.
so LOVE always WINS...!!

At the end i will request you to remember the person you love the most and cherish the beautiful memories you have with him/her. and always keep on loving him/her.

PS i love u and i will always keep on loving u. and i missssss u alot..!!