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Abhinav Dhar

Abhinav Dhar
Thats Me...!!!

Thursday, December 22, 2011

kya fark hai un logon me aur hum me..!!

log khushi aur dukh me antar kar
agey bhad jaate hai,
hum dukh dekh
usi pe latak jaate hai,

log haste haste jeevan
vyateet krna chahte hai,
hum jeevan ki gehraiyo me se
pehle gum nikaalke fekna chahte hai

log vyakul hokar bhi
dikhana nahi chahte,
hum to seedha apne mann ki baat
likh prakat karte hai

log ghumte hai firte hai
dosto pe marte hai,
hume to duniya se hi fursat nahi
duniya k liye khud ka bhi tyaag krte hai


log bas apne dukho ko
dusro k saamne rote hai,
hum to apne dukho se aapke dukho ka
andaaza laga bethte hai


log aapse dosti k badle
kuch to aasha rakhte hai,
hum to sabse dosti karte hai


aur bas yehi aasha karte hai
ki aap humari likhi panktiya pada kare
isiliye hi to hum
mehnet kiya karte hai

yehi farak hai logon me aur hum likhne walon me
wo khudaa se roz raat apni bhalaayi maangte hai,
aur hum sabki khushi
maanga karte hai...!!

guzar chuka hu in pyaar bhari maaro aur dard bhari haaro se...!!

khuda ki khudayi se waakif hu main,
duniya ki in rasmo se bhi wakif hu main,

waakif hu main,
is chahat bhare dikhawe se,
is khone se
is paane se,
is mehfil bhari duniya me
bhare hue gum se,
to shamshan bani raato ke
kisi ke dard se,
roothne ke us andaaz se
manane ke us pyaar se,
haste hue karne waale us waar se
to khone wale us khumaar se,
kaam nikalwane wale us yaar se
kum baat krne wale sache pyaar se,
madad na maangne par bhi
madad krne walo se,
aur dekh kar bhi andekha karne wale
un andho se,
duniya ki maar se
jeevan ki us haar se,

sirf likhta nahi hu
kavi hu main bhi
guzar chuka hu in
pyaar bhari maaro
aur dard bhari haaro se...!!

kabhi apne me, to kabhi tujse hi jee liya karte hai...!!

kabhi teri yaad me,
to kabhi teri har ek baat me,

kabhi tere saath me,
to kabhi teri chahat me,

kabhi tere adhro se,
to kabhi teri naazuk kaliyo se,

kabhi tere vyakul chehre se,
to kabhi khilkhilahat se,

kabhi roothne me aur us gusse me,
to kabhi tere pyaar me,

kabhi tere jhoote sach me,
to kabhi us sache jhoot me,

kabhi bacho wali harkato se,
to kabhi bethkar samjhaane me

hum doob jaaya krte hai

kya bataaye tujko
kabhi aadha jeevan apne me
to kabhi tujse hi
jee liya karte hai...!!

yaad me teri ye sab hone ko hai...

shayad hawa chalne ko hai,
shayad wohi shaam dhalne ko hai,
shayad koi kinaara choothne ko hai,
to shayad koi armaan machalne ko hai,
shayad dil me fir wohi baat khalne ko hai,
kyu roop ka maara firhe dil yha waha
kyu jaan se haara chupe ye yha waha
haar betha isko aaj
kya bataau tumhe jisko banaya tha humne saath milke
shaayad wohi nishaan mitne ko hai..!!

shaayad samaa jalne ko hai,
shaayad umar dhalne ko hai,
shaayad koi jaam choothne ko hai,
to shaayad koi raat machalne ko hai,
shayad dil me wohi baat khalne ko hai
jisse tha dar
wohi raaz uchalne ko hai...!!

utha utha rehta tha raato me jiski yaado me
aaj wohi yaad bhigadne ko hai,
fir bhi mazaaa to ishq ki raah me chalne ko hai,
koi kya samjhayega muje dard aur ishq kya hai
dono ko kareeb se mene dekha hai
kal the ye judaa judaa
aur aaj milne ko hai...!!


khafaa the jo humse
aaj wohi tayar sath chalne ko hai,
kaisi hai ye rut
sab kuch isme milne ko hai,
ghataa baras sab dhalne ko hai,
ab to is registaan se,
meri ishq ki dhaara nikalne ko hai,


khudaa bhi muje khush dekh
koi chaal chalne ko hai,
kyuki ye jazbaat kahin sambhalne to hai,
kadam fir rukne ko hai,
aur meri aankhon se
ashq behene ko hai...!!!

yaad me teri ye sab hone ko hai..!!

Sunday, November 20, 2011

chahta rahunga tujko main humesha bepanah...

tumse thi meri raatein,
tumse hi din bhi the

tumse ki thi kayin baatein,
tumse roothe hum bhi the

tum jo mile ho mujko,
jaage hai dil me armaan kayin

paas jab tum aate ho,
toh door fir kyu jaate ho

aahtein apni sunaake,
waapas kyu chale jaate ho

main to hu ek sookha patta,
tere bin ohh jaana

na jee paunga
na reh paunga na keh paunga kuch,
tere bin ohh janaa

aa zara mere dil se puchle tu,
kaisa lagta hai jab tu chale jaata hai

kyu tu muje chodkar,
chale jaata hai

chahtein dekar mujko kayin,
aise kyu tu satata hai

chahta hu tujko main,
har dum bepanah

maana hai maine ye bhi,
di hai tujko sazaa
par dena na tu daga

kyuki chahtein hai meri
meri chahtein hai tere liye ohh jaana

aur chahta rahunga tujko main
humesha bepanah..!!

ho gya hai hume bhi pyaar..

hua hai ye jo bhi kya hai,
kyu hai dil ye bekaraar,
lagtaa hai hume bhi ho gya hai pyaar..
teri nazroo ne mujhe dekha jis tarah mere yaar,
aaya na fir karaar,
lagta hai hume bhi ho gya hai pyaar..
hum kare na kare ikraar
lekin maanle mere yaar,
lagta hai hume bhi ho gya hai pyaar..
sambhalke rakha tha ye dil humne,
kar diya tumne ispe bhi waar,
lagta hai hume bhi ho gya hai pyaar..
seedha sa insaan bhi,
ban gya kalakaar,
lagta hai hume bhi ho gya hai pyaar..
gaye gum k mausam,
jabse ayi hai ye bahaar,
ab to humne maan hi lia
ho gya hai hume bhi pyaar...!!

Saturday, November 19, 2011

jaan gye hai hum..

tere hone se kuch to khaas hota hai,
bhul jaate hai sab hum
fir bi kuch ehsaas to hota hai,
bolte nahi hai kuch hum
fir bi kuch mehsoos to hota hai,
jaan gye hai hum
tumhare hone naa hone ka kitna asar hota hai..

sur nahi hai humare paas
par hote ho tum to kuch saaz to hota hai,
tumhare sath chalne se
hume kuch naaz to hota hai,
jaan gye hai hum
tumhare hone naa hone ka kitna asar hota hai..

aksar kahi thi humne jo baate
aaj unpe aitraaz to hota hai,
kyuki tumhe chahne ka
har din lajawaab hota hai,
aur jaan gye hai hum
tumhare hone naa hone ka kitna asar hota hai..

Thursday, October 27, 2011

aisa kyu hota hai..

aisa kyu hota hai,
kuch milta hai,
to kuch kho jaata hai..

kuch samaj aata hai,
to kuch bhool jaata hai

kuch hasaata hai,
to kuch rulaata hai

kabhi gum me bhi khushi,
to kabhi khushi me bhi gum satata hai

kyu wo muje humesha rulaata hai,
har kadam pe dard ka ehsaas dilaata hai

chahte hai jo meri,
usse door wo muje kr deta hai

ubharta hu jab ek se,
to doosra gum kyu wo deta hai

agey bhadta hu,
to peeche kyu kar deta hai

kuch sochta hu,
to sab barbaad kyu karta hai

maangta hu kuch,
to wo muje thukra kyu deta hai

kya karu is rishte ka,
jab wo muje sirf ek khilona hi maanta hai

guzaare hai itne saal ghut ghutke takleef me,
aaj bhi wo takleef deta rehta hai


bas itna bataade muje koi

aisa kyu hota hai,
kuch milta hai,
to kuch kho jaata hai..

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

mehsus kia hai maine..

raato me ujaala,
aur din me andhere
mehsus kia hai maine..

jugnu ki khilkhilahat,
aur taaro ki timtimahat ko
mehsus kia hai maine..

pyaar ko maar dena,
nafrat ko janam dena
mehsus kia hai maine..

humesha khoke paana,
aur paate hi kho dena
mehsus kia hai maine..

pal bhar ki khushi,
fir lambi raate rone ki
mehsus kia hai maine..

dusro ko muskurahat dena,
aur dusro ka mujse sab cheen lena
mehsus kia hai maine..

kisi ke liye pal pal marna,
aur kisi ka muje pal pal maarna
mehsus kia hai maine..

khushi chehre pe dikhana,
andar se pal pal ghutna
mehsus kia hai maine..

chahte hazar hona,
par har ek ko dil me daba lena
mehsus kia hai maine..

naarazgi ka wo aalam,
gusse me hona paagal
mehsus kia hai maine..

ro ro ke aankhe sujaana,
fir unhe kisi ko na dikhana
mehsus kia hai maine..

dosto ki us bheed me,
humesha tanhai ko
mehsus kia hai maine..

saath to hai bohto ka,
par us ek ke liye taras jaana
mehsus kia hai maine..

kya bataaye tumhe
aalam is judaayi ka,
doori me bhi
nazdeekio ko
mehsus kia hai maine...!!!

Monday, August 1, 2011

muje hi bhula betha...

dil hi dil me kuch baat daba betha,
tujhse milne ki chaahat me kuch gawaa betha,
nikla tha ghar se sab kuch lekar,
par tuje dhoondte dhoondte,
khud ko hi kho betha...!!!

maanta hu thi meri khataa,
tha mera gunaah,
par kyu tu mujse ye kar betha,
doosro ko chaahte chaahte,
muje hi bhula betha...!!

tere bharose hi jeeta hu main..

teri in muskurahato k liye jeeta hu main,
thandak dene wali in aankhon k liye jeeta hu main,
jo chooti hai muje chupke chupke un zulfo k liye jeeta hu main,
kya tuje pata hai har pal tere liye jeeta hu main...!!!

sapne me aane waali us jhalak k liye jeeta hu main,
muje rulake hasane wale us andaaz k liye jeeta hu main,
muje tadpake muje chidane waali adaa k liye jeeta hu main,
kya tuje pata hai har pal tere liye jeeta hu main...!!!

behki behki baato se nasha dene waali saaso k liye jeeta hu main,
har pal mujko chahne wali dhadkan k liye jeeta hu main,
tu na ho to adhoora hu main,
kya tujhe pata hai tere bharose hi jeeta hu main...!!

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

adhoora hi reh gya wo kissa pyaar ka...

dil ne bohot roka
bohot toka
par uski sun na paaya
hawa ka aaya ek jhoka
uske sath bhi beh nahi paaya
paaya ek khushi ka dariya
usme bi behke main paar na hua
adhoora hi reh gya wo kissa pyaar ka
wo samajh nahi paayi
aur main bolta chalaa gya....!!

ek dariya tha jisne muje pukaara tha
usne mujhe bulaaya tha
aur maine usko chaha tha
paas jaata tha to wo sookha muje milta tha
door bhaag aata tha
to wo aur aakarshit karta
is kadar reh gya main tootta bikharta
adhoora hi reh gya wo kissa pyaar ka
wo samajh nahi paayi
aur main bolta chalaa gya....!!


ek raat ek khwaab aaya tha
dil uski tasveer laaya tha
kabhi usne hasaya
kabhi rulaaya tha
kabhi ek daastan
to kabhi ek kissa sunaaya tha
haste haste hi bikhar gya main
na jaane kaise
adhoora hi reh gya wo kissa pyaar ka
wo samajh nahi paayi
aur main bolta chalaa gya....!!


ho gyi subah
aa gya ujaala
sooraj chaaya niraala
le aaya ek naya pyaala
jaaga main neend se
jaise taise nashe ko taala
bolte bolte
fir ek baar apne aap ko sambhaaala
adhoora hi reh gya wo kissa pyaar ka
wo samajh nahi paayi
aur main bolta chalaa gya....!!

din beet te rahe
raatein dhalti rahi
dil toot ta raha
saasein chalti rahi
chehrein pe thi muskaan
par aankhein roti rahi
ek baar fir chalaawa main karta raha
adhoora hi reh gya wo kissa pyaar ka
wo samajh nahi paayi
aur main bolta chalaa gya....!!

bohot bikhra
bohot sehma
kabhi kabhi darke main
chup bhi betha
par himmat jodi
chala main uske paas
apne dil ka haal bolne
par raste me hi
main apna iraada badal betha
adhoora hi reh gya wo kissa pyaar ka
wo samajh nahi paayi
aur main bolta chalaa gya....!!

allah tujhko pukaara
ishwar ko bhi yaad kia
waheguru ka naam lia
dil me ishu masi ko basaaya
in sabko milaake aayi mujme firse himmat
bina dare
bina toote
khada hua main fir ek baar
par kismat to dekho
is deewane ki
jisko soch rha tha main hakeekat
wo thi meri badkismat
jab tak himmat aayi pohochne ki uske paas
tab tak main tha allah ke paas
fir ek baar
adhoora hi reh gya wo kissa pyaar ka
wo samajh nahi paayi
aur main bolta chalaa gya....!!

mujko manzooor nahi...

tera mujhse rooth jaana
choti baato pe door jaana
tera mujko yu sataana
badi badi baatein chupaana

mujse salaah na lena
fir mujko yu sunaana
ghum baatna par
sukh ki khabar na dena

mujpe yu barasna
dil yu todna
galti karke na maan na
aur fir mujpe yu bhigadna

tadpaana, jalaana
dil k paas aana
aur paas aake door jaana
tera mere liye nazraana

mera tere liye hasi baatna
to tera mere liye dard kaatna
kabhi mera tere liye kuch laana
to badle me tera taana

ye sab mujko manzoor hai... ye sab mujko manzoor hai...

par is naate ka yu toot jaana
sab kuch yu khatam ho jaana
mujko aaj bhi manzoor nahi

galti meri bhi hai maana
par kyu kiya tune ye
jabki tune mujko tha
sab kuch maana

na bataana
mujse chupaana
ye bhi maine manzoor kiya
aur tujko maaf kiya

par fir tera kisi aur ke shabd mujko bhejna
mera dil dehlaana
mera armaano se khelna
mere dil ko yu kuchalna
mujpe barasna
aur fir mujpe hi galti ka ilzaam lagaana..

ye mujko aaj bhi manzoor nahi....
ye mujko manzoor nahi..

toota hai mera dil
aisa karke kya gya tujko mil

na main daat rha
na main samjha rha
na main dhamka rha
na main mazak uda rha
main kuch krne laayak na rha

shaayad ye rishta banana mere ab bas me na raha...!!!

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

roz raat ye apraadh hu kar bethta...

chala tha dil ki seemayein bandhne,
wo meri seemayein tod betha

chala fir main us khuda se kuch maangne,
wo mujhse muh fer betha

chala main apne yar ki oor,
wo bhi mera dil tod betha

aaya main apne pyaar ki oor,
wo bhi mujhse door ja betha

khatam hui meri taakat,
himmat fir bhi na haar betha

uthaya kalam,
aur sabke baare me kuch likh betha

jal gye mujse sab wo padkar,
jaise main koi apraadh kar betha

agar sachai likhna apraadh hai,
han to roz raat main ye apraadh hu kar bethta...!!

tham jaata hai ye aaj bhi unki baaton se...

kabhi kabhi jal uthte hai apne hi waadon pe,
kabhi kabhi luta dete hai sab kuch uski yaadon pe

kabhi to sehem jaate hai kuch naato se,
to kabhi seekh lete hai kuch un saath bitaayi hui raaton se

kabhi noor saja dete hai unki aankhon pe,
to kabhi lut jaate hai unki ek hasrat pe

seemayein to nahi bandhi thi is dil ke liye kabhi,
par tham jaata hai aaj bhi ye unki baaton se...!!

hasratein iski aaj bhi kisi aur ki hai..

upar upar se dekh kar kehte hai log,
sab theek hi lagta hai

kahiye unse kabhi andar jhaake humare wo log,
dil to humara bhi jalta hai

behekta hai, sehemta hai,
tadapta hai, tarasta hai
kabhi kabhi to ye rota hai

par koi kya ye jaanta hai..
bolo kya tumne kabhi mere dil ka ye haal jaana hai??

humesha dekha tumne isey
muskurata hua, chehekta hua,
khelta hua

par asal me to iski seemayein kuch aur hi hai
dhadakta hai mere seene me
par hasratein iski aaj bhi kisi aur ki hai..!!

usey apna liya...

humne mann hi mann kuch apna liya,
kuch kho diya aur kuch paa liya,

banane ko to bohot rishte hai is duniya me,
par jisko chaha tha barso se usko apna bana liya.

socha tha usko samajh liya
khud se behter jaan liya..

socha tha usko samajh liya
khud se behter jaan liya..

mann bhi uska parakh liya
aur dil me bhi uske jhaak liya..

par aaj bhi puch bethe hai wo
tumne aakhir mere liye kya kiya..

har baar hai tumne kuch liya
kya kabhi kuch diya..

us raat humne bohot socha bohot samjha
par samajh yehi aaya
baat to unki bhi sahi thi

aakhir humne diya bhi to kya- dil, jaan aur chahat
jiski is duniya me keemat nahi

aur liya bhi to kya-pyaar,waqt aur keemat
jiska is duniya me koi tol hi nahi...!!

Sunday, July 17, 2011

aukaat..

aukaat aapki humse unchi na hoti,
to ye door kabhi chooti na hoti..
abhi bhi rehta kuch darmiya,
agar ye zindgi humse roothi na hoti..
manaate rehte hum aapko,
agar ye daastan kisi ne looti na hoti..
nibhate aaj bhi hum apne saare farz
agar humse kisine haq jataane ki ijaazat cheeni na hoti..!!

aaj bhi kisi pe marne ka mann karta hai

raat ke is noor ki
tareef krne ka mann karta hai..

chandni ki is chamak me
doob jaane ka mann karta hai..

raat ki akeli roshan raaho me
kho jaane ka mann karta hai..

jo diye hai zakhm us khubsurat ne
unhe khula chorrne ka mann krta hai..

soch lia tha pyaar na krenge hum dobara
magar kya karein
aaj bhi kisi pe marne ka mann karta hai..

hogi kal ek nayi subah
maalum hai mujhko
par fir bhi in andhero me
chup jaane ka mann karta hai..

aayega kal ek naya savera
layega ek naya sandesa
par fir bhi in tanhaiyo me
jeene ka mann karta hai..

sochta hu jab un roshan raato ko
un jaagti subah ko, un khoti shaamo ko
to ek umeed jag uthti hai
magar fir bhi in dhalti raato me
doobne ka mann karta hai..

asmanjas me pad jaata hu kabhi kabhi to
yaha jau ya wahan jau
andhkar kheeche apni oor
suraj bandhe apni door
kya karu kya na karu
ye sochta reh jaata hu
par fir bhi isi raat me
reh jaane ka mann karta hai..

kho jaata hu kabhi kabhi to
in raasto pe
jinhe kabhi milti thi roshan raahein
par fir bhi aaj
inhi pe chalne ka mann karta hai..

bhaag bhaag ke in sabse door
bhaag gya hu apne aap se
jinhe samajhta tha kal tak apni zindgi
sahi maayno me bhag rha hu aaj unse hi
par kya karu kya na karu
aaj bhi samajh nahi aata hai
bas inhi raato me kho jaane ka mann karta hai..

humse puchte hai wo ki
kyu rehte ho andhkar me
jaakar kabhi puche to wo us zaalim se
ki kyu rakhte hai wo hume is andhkar me
jeena to hum bhi nahi chahte kuch aise
par fir bhi aise hi rehne ka mann karta hai..

kehte the kabhi wo humse
marte hai hum to tumpe
par aisa marna bhi kya marna
jo jeene na de
jo un sabhi gumo ko seene na de
jaante hai hum sataaya karte hai wo hume
par fir bhi aaj unse pyaar karne ka mann karta hai..


aur mile koi unhe to bata dena unhe
ki aaj bhi kisi pe marne ka mann karta hai...!!

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

ye mukaam tune hi banaya hai...!!!

firse ek aisa din aaya hai
jab dil me khushiyo ka mausam bhar aaya hai

bethe bethe krta tha jiski yaado ka intzar
aj wo hakikat me chala aaya hai

zyada kuch to nahi kar paaya tere liye
par aaj ek saal pura hone aaya hai

ladte jhagadte rote rulate
haske humne har ek pal jeena seekha hai
aur ek baar firse dagmagate sambhalte
is safar me ek sitara joda hai

the tum bhi ek aazad panchi
hum bhi the kuch manmauji se
par aaj dono ne milkar
ek naya jeevan apnaya hai

kahani ki shuruat to ho chuki thi bohot pehle
par badi mushkilo se
mehnet se aur himmat se yha tak
isko humne pohchaya hai
aur aaj ye ek naya mukaam paaya hai

karta hu salaam tujko jhuk kar
karta hu salaam tujhko jhuk kar
ki tune mujko diya hai saara pyaar
aur aaj apni zindgi ka
ek keemti hissa bana daala hai

apne komal se sparsh se
apne ek darsh se
ullas jaga uthti hai teri roshan kirne
jaise suraj khud meri aankho me samaa aata hai

samjhaute kare tune mere khatir
banna pada tuje bhi mere liye shatir
shayad main na de paaya tuje khushi utni
par aaj dil to mera bhi bhar aaya hai

maine tujse kahin waaade kiye
par main bhi un tamam logon ki tarah nikla
jo ki apne pyaar se tyaag krwate rhe
par main nahi hu itna bhi bura
kyuki mujme tera hi to saaya hai

lutkar tu mere pyaar me
ho gyi gumsum
kabhi bethi akele tanha chupchup
par kuch na kaha kabhi mujse tune
isi baat se har baar tere liye pyaar bhad aaya hai

mere khatir tu to ban gyi mere adhro ki pyaala
tujko peeta raha main
apni sharto pe jeeta raha main
par tune bhi kabhi kuch na bola
jaise khali madhushala me koi saaki aaya hai

pyaala mujko raas na aaya
usse mera kaam na ban paaya
maine maangi madira
tune usme bhi kuch na bola
jaise pyaasa koi madira peene aaya hai

jab ho gya main madira ka aadi
tab bhi tune mera sath na choda
tu hi nikla mera sacha saaathi
aur main kya bolu
mera dil bhar aaya hai..
aj tujko paakar sath
sukh ki mere upar ek chaaya hai

kar na sakta hu main
usko bayaan
jo maine tere sath rehke
paaya hai

par yaad rakhna
jaisa bhi ho mera ye dil
ye humesha tumhare sath
rehne ko aaya hai


dhadakta to hai mere seene me
par chalta ye tere liye aaya hai

saas to leta hai mere liye
par bharta ye tujme aaya hai

maine to kahin baar ye sab todna chaha
par tune hi isko bachaya
aur yha tak isko laaya hai

salaam karta hu firse tuje jhuk kar
tune hi to is mukaam ko humare liye banaya hai..!!!

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Tension kaye ko lene ka.. khush raho!!



Why so serious?? Seriousness is good but upto a certain extent and certain things.. Seriousness beyond a limit is dangerous just like a bomb which takes life.
Seriousness hives stress,tension and pressure and leads to harm on our life.

SERIOUSNESS=TENSION=GLOOMINESS=UNHAPPY LIFE

we should try to restrict seriousness to the places it is meant for but in actual life why to be so serious? is it required?? no its not!! you can live life by beeing cool.. forgetting your worries and by thinking about good things in life.
We can directly see the harm of seriousness by comparing two persons one who always remains serious and other who takes life coolly without being much serious or tensed about it.
Seeing and comparing the results we will come to know that person who takes life coolly is much more successful in all the areas. Moreover he has a better health,good presence of mind and a healthy and more fresh body and soul.
So, seriousness leads to dissatisfaction and happiness gives satisfaction in life.
So try to be happy and less serious!!
It will give much better resultsssssss....
ALL d BEST!!

until you are by my side...!!!

World seems like an incomplete night
Without you by my side
Everything promises to be right
But only when you are by my side

The talks with friends
The walks with them
All seem like a dreadful fight
Until the time you are by my side

Conversations with mother
Discussions with father
All seem like a languid sight
Until the time you are by my side

The routine of days
The schedule of nights
All seem to be so tight
Until the time you are by my side

The problems of my mind
The downs of my life
Never seem to be so light
Until the time you are by my side

The awesome celebrations
The party decorations
Never seem to be right
Until the time you are by my side

The tasty food
The misty mood
Never seem to kite
Until the time you are by my side

The hilarious acts
The interesting facts
Seem like a falling night
Until the time you are by my side

My love for you
My feelings for you
Keep on increasing day by day
But they can never be kept open wide
Until the time you are by my side
   
Love you a lot…!!!

Friday, April 22, 2011

Definition of Love...!!!

Love... a four letter word that has always remained in the hearts and minds of all the living beings on this Earth. Every single person on this earth needs love.. and if someone claims that he or she can live without love then definitely it is a joke because noone has ever lived without love , noone can ever exist without this magical word.
It is so because love started showing its form since you were inside your mother's womb, that time love was between you and your mother. Once you come out into this beautiful world you start getting love in various forms- mother,father,sister,brother,uncle,aunt etc. and even if a person says noone loves me then also there is atleast one person who loves you and that is GOD Himself.
As god cannot be everywhere so he created his images in the form of these relationships from where you get love in some way or the other.
When you are a child you can see that many people are around you taking care of you, but gradually when you grow up people start leaving you as they think you have become responsible enough and you dont need the same care as is required in the childhood.

So you start evolving, start taking up life as it comes and live it the way you want.
At the age of 17-20, as the trend today is, you feel that you must have a partner. (NOTE- I am not talking about the timepass partner , partner here means one who is with you always and loves u like anything)
so this is another form of love that has an important position in life.
This person must be chosen carefully because this is one relation that will continue to be with you during your whole life even when you are sad, gloomy , worried, tensed up...

So here starts another phase of love.. People may say that love has merely reduced to physical relationship but I strongly believe that love will have physical relation too but not only that..
It must connect two people emotionally too and if you are connected emotionally then there is an emotion in everything you do, even what you do physically is an emotion then.

I got a chance today to update my blog and write about love because I got motivated by my dearest friend Mr. Abhishek Maurya (his blog http://mauryaabhishek.blogspot.com/2011/04/definition-of-love.html#comments)

He wrote something about love today that I probably could not digest, you read his blog also, he wrote his point of view and I am here writing my views about what love is.

So i was talking about the physical part of a relationship which according to my dearest friend is the only thing thought by lovers today.
My dear friend I dont think so, what I think is that this physical part comes out of you when you are connected emotionally to a person whom you love.
Everything is full of emotions a sweet kiss, a tight hug, and everything else that exists between lovers. It is not that you are crossing all the limits, it is just that you have to do that because you love that person and it is your helplesness that you cant tell this to your parents because they wont understand all this at this time.
But once you grow up and succeed in life then they will allow you to socially live together and do whatever you want...
and this is how true love wins..!!
TRUE LOVE should not be written I must write only LOVE because love is always true.
so LOVE always WINS...!!

At the end i will request you to remember the person you love the most and cherish the beautiful memories you have with him/her. and always keep on loving him/her.

PS i love u and i will always keep on loving u. and i missssss u alot..!!